My mom is choosing her boyfriend over me and my little brother. What should i do?
Last night, my mom told us that she was leaving for the Caribbean with her boyfriend. She said that she needs a vacation, but we went 2 hawaii last year, and we went on another vacation in july. she is leaving the day before school starts, and she knows that its a big deal for me. every year. and how could she just leave? shes leaving for a long time, 2. idk how long, but it is for a while. all she is saying is that she thinks we can handle it, and all this other crap, but i cant. how can i try to get her to understand, so he wont go. i mean, she got the tickets for free, so it wont matter, money-wise. I’m starting to think that she is slowly pushing my little brother and i away from us because of her loser boyfriend. it hurts.
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Tags: Long Time, Other Crap, Wont Matter
5. December 2006 at 9:00 am :
kick her boyfriend in the nuts it will make u feel a little better
6. December 2006 at 10:41 am :
ask her if one day you and her can go to lunch and then talk to her and tell her how you and your little bro feel and hopefully she will understand
8. December 2006 at 2:06 pm :
well u llok her lovinly in the eye…then u shake her …u shake her violently and say what is wrong with u……….we are your children…we shud be first
10. December 2006 at 4:33 pm :
just tell her that how u feel about the whole situation and she might understand
11. December 2006 at 8:44 pm :
Is she leaving you alone with your brother???? How old are you???Tell her you have no clue how to take care of a boy for a while.. by yourself, with no help at all, what kind of mother cares about her boyfriend more then her own daughter and son? wow, I don’t know what to say. How will you feed yourselfs, take care of the house, etc?
Tell your mom this, please.
12. December 2006 at 6:28 am :
Sit your mother down and tell her what she is doing. putting a loser boyfriend before her family is wrong and try to be strong for your little brother its hard for him to. don”t let your mother push her true family away. And contact a friend or family member that you trust so that they can talk to her too… GOOD LUCK
14. December 2006 at 2:11 am :
1st how old are you and your brother. It could be against the law for her to leave you at home alone. Maybe you should tell your Mom how you feel. If she doesn’t listen and you feel that the situation is getting worse you should talk to a counselor at your school. I hope that it all works out:)
14. December 2006 at 2:53 pm :
Thats horible. Im sorry u have to go through something like that. You should tell this to ur mom, tell her that you feel pushed away and that you need her on the first day of school.
The only way shell know how u feel is if you tell her
15. December 2006 at 3:54 pm :
My heart goes out to you. I am so, so, so sorry you have to deal with this and your little brother. You are too young to have to go through this. I hope that she has made arrangements for you and your brother to be taken care of by a responsible adult while she is gone? If not, then when you go back to school (I assume you are in high school or middle school) talk to your guidance counselor. The guidance counselor (whether you like them or not) will know what to do. Unfortunately, there may be some unpleasant consequences, but that is the choice your mother made and it may effect you more. This is the best advice I can give you. Oh, still talk to the guidance counselor about this even if she does not leave. Also, what about your father, is he in the picture? Grandparents? Speak to them and the counselor if you can okay. I will keep you in my prayers.
17. December 2006 at 8:50 pm :
poor girl. maybe she has a lot of pressure on her. go easy. don’t kick her boyfriends nuts. please. deal with the situation by talking with her. both u and your bro. kay!